I think it's strange how people break up then suddenly hate each other. First of all, don't you think you should be even just a little grateful for the people that worked so hard to keep you happy at one point? And what about all that time you spent together, all the stuff you went through...do you just erase it from your memory or what? I've always wondered why ex-couples feel the need to talk all that shit about each other, I mean, if that girl was so bad in bed, why would you even fuck them five more times after the first one? And if that guy was so bad at kissing, then why did you keep going to the movies with him just to make out? If your ex was so bad at everything, why'd you even keep dating that person in the first place?! We all know our ex's were amazing but just too afraid to admit it because you'd feel like you let something good go. And we all talk shit because we're angry. But if it was meant to be, it would always find its way, and since you're still not back together, maybe you were meant to be just friends. Like I always say, the current is always good 'til you find something better. I'm friends with almost all my ex's because they were my best friends at one point, and taking it to the next level and having it not work out would NEVER be my reason for a broken friendship. But take note that I said ALMOST when I said all my ex's are my friends. There is only one exception, and this guy was the only one that dumped me. So, he dumps me over text right, then doesn't tell me why. So i decide to confront him about a week later when I was completely over it and he says "Oh, I just thought you liked someone else...do you wanna get back together?" WTF? First of all, if that was your reason, why wouldn't you have just ASKED me, it would've probably avoided the whole break up shit. Secondly, how the hell are you gonna ask to get back together? Who do you think you are?!SOOO of course I rejected him and that's when he started talking shit. So I sit next to one of his good friends in Spanish class. I walk into the class and his friend starts crackin' up and I looked at him funny and he said he was sorry. And I said is there something on my face? Then he says no, but I have to tell you something that [insert my ex's name here] said. So I ask what, and he goes "he said he dumped you 'cause you have a bigger dick than him." And I was shocked and angry but all that was taken over by my laughter of how immature [insert my ex's name here] is! Honey, anyone could have a bigger dick than you, but no one could ever BE a bigger dick than you. I didn't even bother trying to confront him about it because he just proved to me that rejecting him the second time was the best decision I've ever made in my life. And he was actually doing me some good by breaking up with me.
You can call me a hypocrite because before me and any of my ex's were ever able to build our friendship back, there was a lot of shit talking and dirty looking and eye rolling going on between us. But we managed to push all that behind us and be able to talk again, because relationships don't last forever, but friendships do...or at least they SHOULD.
